Short answer: decide early, start with family, then choose between selling, donating and collection based on how much time you have. Leaving it to the final week is what makes it stressful.
Start with family and friends
Ask whether anyone would like particular pieces. Doing this first avoids selling something that would have gone to a relative, and gives family time to arrange collection.
Selling
- Good-quality or antique pieces may sell through local auction houses or online marketplaces.
- Selling takes time and effort, and not everything sells, so set a deadline.
- Keep photographs and measurements ready if you list items online.
Donating
- Many charities and charity shops accept furniture in good condition, and some offer collection. Ask what they accept and whether labels and fire-safety standards apply.
- Donation is often quicker than selling.
Recycling and collection
- Many councils offer bulky waste collection, sometimes for a fee, and some have recycling centres that take furniture. Check your local council's website for current details.
- Book collections early, as they can have waiting times.
Make the decision once
Use the four-pile method: keep, sell or pass on, donate, let go. Our downsizing checklist explains it, and how to declutter a parent's house adds ideas for pacing it.
Help with the whole process
Our decluttering and sorting service helps you decide room by room, and nothing is disposed of without your agreement. See also downsizing help for older people and planning furniture for a smaller home.


